This episode Kate is by guest Nicola Noel, specialist psyciatric nurse & solution focused hypnotherapist.
They discuss strategies for survivors of domestic abuse to move forward and rebuild their lives. The conversation covers ten key points for personal growth and recovery. They emphasise the importance of taking small, consistent steps towards your goals, building a support network, and seeking professional therapy.
They discuss the benefits of setting boundaries, reclaiming one's identity, and becoming financially savvy.
They also touch on the value of education in recognising and avoiding abusive situations in the future.
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On this episode Kate is joined by Michelle El-Din, a survivor of domestic abuse and advocate. Michelle shares her personal experiences with two abusive relationships and her passion and drive in supporting other survivors. She discusses the patterns of abuse, including love bombing, rapid relationship progression, and manipulation tactics used by her abusers. Michelle emphasises the importance of recognising red flags and trusting one's instincts. The conversation covers the challenges of leaving abusive relationships, the impact on children, and the process of healing and rebuilding one's life after abuse. Michelle also mentions her involvement in writing books about domestic abuse and her efforts to empower other survivors through her Facebook group and monthly online events.
Empowering Women Through Self-Defense.
In this powerful episode Kate welcomes Hannah Rock, a self-defense instructor and advocate, who shares her journey from being a mother of a domestic abuse survivor to becoming a champion for women’s safety.
Hannah discusses the harrowing experience of her eldest daughter's abusive relationship, the lack of available support, and how this inspired her to turn pain into purpose.
The conversation highlights the importance of early education on recognising warning signs, using verbal strategies to de-escalate conflicts, and understanding the dynamics of power and control in abusive situations.
This episode is a must-listen for parents, survivors, and anyone looking to empower themselves or others with the tools for safety and resilience.
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This episode Kate is joined by Carrie Moore, a childhood trauma coach and hypnotherapist. Carrie shares her personal experiences of childhood sexual abuse and how it affected her adult relationships. She discusses the challenges of recognising and addressing childhood trauma, the impact on self-esteem and relationships, and her journey towards healing and helping others.
The conversation covers various aspects of abuse, including emotional disconnection in families, the cycle of abuse, and the importance of awareness and knowledge in breaking free from abusive situations. Carrie also touches on her upcoming autobiography and her work as a trauma ambassador for Health Watch Essex. The discussion emphasises the importance of understanding trauma, recognising red flags, and the potential for healing and growth after abuse.
This episode continues the conversation with Yasmine Javed. They discuss the failings of various institutions, particularly the police and healthcare system, in protecting Fawziyah despite multiple reports of abuse. Yasmine recounts how Fawziyah had contacted the police twice, provided voice recordings, and sought help from divorce lawyers, yet was still failed by the system. The conversation highlights the importance of proper risk assessment, timeline creation, and taking every report of abuse seriously. They also discuss the need for better training and awareness among professionals, including midwives and other healthcare workers, to recognise and respond to signs of domestic abuse. The episode concludes with recommendations for both victims and professionals on how to handle domestic abuse cases more effectively.
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This episode features Yasmin Javid, whose daughter Fawziyah was tragically murdered by her husband. The discussion covers Fawziyah's life, her marriage, the abuse she suffered, and the failings of the police in protecting her. Yasmin describes Fawziyah as a beautiful, kind-hearted, and accomplished lawyer who was loved by everyone. The marriage quickly turned abusive, with her husband and in-laws controlling and mistreating her. Yasmin highlights how police failed to adequately respond to Fawziyah's situation, missing several opportunities to intervene and potentially prevent her murder. The conversation also touches on the escalation of abuse, the importance of proper risk assessment, and the need for better training and resources for police dealing with domestic abuse cases.
Managing Escalation During Christmas While Coping with Domestic Abuse
In this powerful episode of The Domestic Abuse Breakthrough Show, host Kate and Nicole Noel addresses the unique challenges of navigating the holiday season for those impacted by domestic abuse. Drawing from personal and professional experiences as a survivors and advocates.
This episode serves as a beacon of support, offering practical tools and empowering listeners to prioritise their safety and well-being during a time that can be particularly stressful for Victim survivors. It’s a must-listen for those looking to navigate the holidays with strength and resilience.
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Dr. Kate Truitt, a neuroscientist and clinical psychologist, discusses her work on trauma processing and neuroplasticity, particularly focusing on the amygdala. She emphasizes the importance of brain partnership and resilience in healing from trauma. Dr. Truitt highlights the impact of betrayal and the role of primal brain responses, such as the periaqueductal gray, in trauma survivors' experiences. She stresses the need for trauma-informed approaches in various systems, including police and healthcare, to better support survivors. The conversation also touches on the physical health impacts of trauma and the importance of self-compassion and resilience-building techniques.
Kate Beasley and Jenny Claridge discuss the impact of domestic abuse on children. Jenny, a trauma-informed advocate, shares her experiences with her abusive ex-husband and his children. She describes how her daughter was treated poorly, leading to her running away and ending up in a homeless shelter. Jenny's youngest son developed severe OCD and nighttime anxiety, while her stepson also exhibited similar behaviors. They discuss the emotional disconnect mothers face due to survival mode and the scrutiny they endure in court. Jenny emphasises the importance of understanding and addressing the long-term effects of abuse on children.
Available to listen to on 25th Nov
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Kate is joined by UK teacher Sam Shafique, who shares her personal experience with domestic abuse and the challenges she faced in family courts, particularly regarding the impact on children. Together, they stress the need for a child-centered approach in the legal system and the importance of trauma-informed training for school staff. They discuss the lack of resources in schools to support children from trauma-affected homes and call for systemic changes to improve how courts and professionals address the needs of families affected by domestic abuse.
Kate is joined by psychotherapist Nicola Saunders to discuss the emotional and psychological effects of domestic abuse on children, focusing on generational trauma and family history. They explore how parental behaviors shape a child's emotional development, the impact of trauma, and the specific challenges single mothers face after escaping abusive relationships. The conversation also highlights the importance of modeling healthy behaviors, fostering open communication about family changes, and navigating the family court system to address children’s needs in abusive situations.
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Kate is joined by Lou Feltham-Smith, a survivor of domestic abuse. Lou discusses her work in supporting other survivors through her charity, Miracle Mums Movement Inc. The discussion covers the impact of domestic abuse on children, the challenges faced by victims in seeking help and support, and the importance of understanding the psychology of perpetrators and the complexities of coercive control. Kate & Lou highlight the need for better training and awareness among professionals, such as the police and court staff, to effectively support and protect victims of domestic abuse.
In this episode Kate, is joined by Nicola Noelle, a solution focused Hypnotherapist, specialist psychiatric nurse, and mindset coach. The discussion covers various aspects of domestic abuse, including the tactics used by perpetrators, the challenges faced by victims, and the importance of building resilience and taking back power. They touch on the issues of rehabilitation and accountability within the criminal justice system, as well as the need for societal change in addressing the normalization of abusive behaviors. The overall focus is on empowering victims, providing support, and creating a future of safety and strength.
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In this episode Kate continues her discussion on Zoe's harrowing domestic abuse experience. After being held hostage and severely injured by her ex-partner, she discusses the failures of police in addressing her reports of stalking and harassment, as well as the systemic victim-blaming she endured. Zoe also highlights her campaign for a serial perpetrator register, designed to track repeat domestic abuse offenders, which has gained significant public support with nearly 280,000 signatures. Tune in to learn about the challenges of navigating the family court system, the need for trauma-informed legal approaches, and the fight for systemic change.
Zoe Dronfield, a survivor of domestic abuse and stalking, shared her harrowing experience on the Domestic Abuse Breakthrough Show. In 2014, she was nearly murdered by her ex-partner, Jason Smith, in an eight-hour brutal attack. Despite initial romantic feelings, Smith's behavior deteriorated, leading to stalking and harassment. Zoe highlighted the police's inadequate response and the family court's failure to protect her. She revealed that Smith had a history of abuse, affecting 13 other women, including a serving police officer. Zoe is now suing the police and raising funds for legal experts to fight for justice. To support Zoe, her go fund me page is:
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Zoe's Book can be purchased here:
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Kate Beesley, a trauma and domestic abuse specialist, shares her personal journey and professional commitment to addressing violence against women and girls. She recounts her experiences with domestic abuse, including coercive control, stalking, and legal abuse within the family court system. Beesley emphasizes the importance of knowledge and skills for victims to navigate the broken justice system and protect themselves. She highlights the need for better understanding of coercive control and the psychology of both perpetrators and victims. Beesley also stresses the necessity of arming the public with this knowledge to improve outcomes and provide hope for a better future.